What a book can bring such people?

Professor Pascal de Sutter: 'In this time of crisis, it may be a breath of oxygen, heat in their life, some ideas to feel more radiant to be happier in life in general, including the sexual. And then, in addition to my experience Psychologist sexologist, I talk a lot of knowledge from scientific research on sexuality that are not always known to the general public. There is a link between happiness and sexuality. Sex is good for the skin, heart, digestion, Sleep. Its positive effects are scientifically established. '

 

Who are those who have sex the more fulfilling?

Professor Pascal de Sutter: 'I'll reply with a specific point: for a man like a woman, imagine fantasies of erotic fantasies small type in self-respect and other things realistic and achievable, is an excellent thing. Those who have the imagination in this regard have a life sexual happier than others. And this is particularly true for women ... '

What are the mistakes we make and keep us from being happy sexually?

Professor Pascal de Sutter: 'The most common error, in my view, is to think that sexuality blossomed, it comes from heaven. During the first stirrings of passion from the beginning of a meeting, the chemistry is sufficient to fuel the flame. Thereafter, he will voluntarily put energy into her sexuality to make it work. This is something that is built, which speaks'.


 

Are there any points that seem essential?

Professor Pascal de Sutter: 'Yes, sexuality is important for society as a whole. And yet we have very little awareness of its benefits. When a society is more tolerant, more open, more equal for women, more comfortable, less puritanical with sexuality, when it requires less banned, laws ... There is less violencePeople are happier, more fulfilled, more prosperity. This is true when comparing all societies. '

'Another point is the importance of theoptimism. When you have a sexual failure, erectile dysfunction as an example, rather than saying 'I can never, my sex life is damn', it is much less toxic to think: 'I have worries of work, it will be better next time '. For a woman who was not oforgasmRather than thinking 'I'm frigid' it is more positive thinking 'I can learn to let me go to fun ... '. In our mind, we can improve or worsen the situation. One of the secrets of happy people sexually is their optimism. '